Do you ever wonder why some guys can talk to any woman? You see a guy that looks like an average Joe talking to the most beautiful woman in the bar. How is he doing it? You know it’s not the looks. So what could it be?
There are few things that you have to know to pick up a woman. First of all you must keep in mind that it is a numbers game. The more women you talk to the more numbers you will get. Don't worry if a woman turns you down. You will probably never see her again. Guys that get most numbers are usually very confident. Women like a man who knows what he wants and is not afraid to show it. Women want to be desired, they want to be noticed.
If you want to you can use a pick up line on your target. You should try to use appropriate line that works in the give situation. Don't worry about it to much just go out there and say it. Pay attention to the response that you receive. Feedback is the key, it allows you to continue the conversation and engage into more personal chat. The woman you are talking to is the focus so keep her interested and listen to what she says. Let her talk, if she is interested she will give you so called indicators of interest (IOI).
Indicator of interest is questions related to you as well as complements that she can give you. For example if she asks for your name that is an IOI. If she says that she likes your watch that is an IOI.
When you received at least 3 IOI's you can strike and go after contact information. You should be able to tell if a woman is interested in you at that point. You can say that you enjoyed talking with her and would like to do it again sometime. Wait for her response, if she sounds sincere and returns your complement then ask her how you could get in touch with her. She can say that she will give you her phone number or she may ask you for yours. Don't sweat it if she wants your number and doesn't give you hers. Remember if she doesn't call it is her loss, and there are still million of fish in the sea.
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